Icelandic Learning is a Gendered Health Issue Logan Lee Sigurðsson skrifar 1. apríl 2025 08:32 It is no secret that language barriers are one of the biggest challenges for all Icelanders of foreign origin. Iceland has the lowest self-reported host language proficiency for migrants among all OECD countries — just 18%, compared to the 60% average. Practical access barriers are commonly discussed, including course availability, quality, and high costs. However what is often missing from the conversation is just how learning Icelandic intersects with gender and health. Hidden Barriers: Language learning is labour, even if not often recognized as such. It demands time, focus, and emotional energy — resources not equally available to everyone. Unsurprisingly, the same barriers immigrant women face in the labour market — ie. disproportionate childcare and family responsibilities, health issues, cultural expectations etc. — likewise limit their ability to participate in Icelandic learning. Moreover, knowledge gaps around how trauma, grief, anxiety, and other integration stressors show up in classrooms in ways that language teachers are often not equipped to handle via generalized language teaching methods. Language learning for migrant learners uniquely can trigger and intensify complex issues of identity and belonging. Emotional and cognitive challenges — such as irritability, forgetfulness, sleep disturbances, emotional detachment, and negative self-image — can hinder one's ability to learn, yet are often misunderstood by both learners and educators. Well-meaning advice often offers, “Just be confident!” or “Get out and try more!”, with even some healthcare professionals approaching the matter more within the scope of general self-esteem issues. Yet deeper, multicultural factors are at play, such as dual-identity formation, coping with microaggressions, internalized discrimination, and all the invisible work and effort it takes to navigate an unfamiliar society. Studies further indicate women experience more second language anxiety, echoing broader trends in social anxiety. While Icelandic is obviously difficult for men too, unique gendered circumstances including: the emotional labor of relationship management, preservers of family reputation, more likely to be socialized to draw personal value and self image based on their relationships and how others see them, extra subjection to social policing, increased expectations of coming off as caring and polite pressuring careful tone and word choices etc. These factors raise the stakes of language expression differently for women. As a result, learning Icelandic becomes incredibly personal and isolating, leaving many women silently wondering, "What is wrong with me that makes this so hard?" The Results: With one of the highest migrant overqualification rates in the OECD — about 1 in 3 migrants are in mismatched jobs compared to 1 in 10 natives — Foreign women are especially affected as more likely to be overqualified and hold higher education than their male peers. For refugees, these gaps are even wider. Then their children — even those born and raised in Iceland — also face challenges, as they are disproportionately represented in the NEET (Not in Education, Employment, or Training) category. Low parental income or unemployment — both correlating with immigrant families — play a major role in this. The weight and worry this can put on women, particularly as mothers hoping to offer their children better opportunities, is immeasurable. Hope for Change: W.O.M.E.N. offers this article as another perspective to language learning barriers. We see a critical need and opportunity to better support women of foreign origin and their families by exploring these topics further. Partnering with Kvíðameðferðarstöðin and multiple language schools this Spring and Summer, W.O.M.E.N. is conducting the Mállíðan (Mál / language + líðan / health) project funded by the Immigrant Development fund. Mállíðan offers wellbeing support alongside Icelandic courses for women of foreign origin; while together working to better understand these issues and identify best practices. If you are a woman of foreign origin this article has resonated with - you are not alone. We welcome you to visit our website for more information on courses from participating schools here: https://womeniniceland.is/en/mallidan/ The author is the Vice Chair of W.O.M.E.N. & Project Manager of Mállíðan Viltu birta grein á Vísi? Kynntu þér reglur ritstjórnar um skoðanagreinar. Senda grein Íslensk tunga Mest lesið Hættulegasta fitan er ekki sú sem sést utan á líkamanum Anna Lind Fells Skoðun Engar samningaviðræður lengur - einungis sótt um inngöngu. Þollý Rósmundsdóttir Skoðun „Ég kýs að kjósa ekki“ Silja Sóley Birgisdóttir,Sigrún E. Unnsteinsdóttir ,Rósa Guðný Arnardóttir,Jökull Sólberg Auðunsson,Júnía Líf M. Sigurjónsdóttir,Jón Ferdínand Estherarson,Hannes Pétursson,Halldór Ólafsson,Geirdís Hanna Kristjánsdóttir,Birna Gunnlaugsdóttir Skoðun Er búið að lofa áfengisiðnaðinum atkvæðagreiðslu til að freista þess að stöðva dómsmál? Siv Friðleifsdóttir Skoðun Rangt svar við raunverulegum vanda Sandra Hlín Guðmundsdóttir Skoðun Efnahagslegur raunveruleiki: Ísland dregst enn frekar aftur úr smáríkjum innan Evrópusambandsins Kristján Reykjalín Vigfússon Skoðun Mjallhvít og dvergarnir sjö Ingibjörg Gunnlaugsdóttir Skoðun Gervigreind, ábyrgð og framtíð samfélags okkar Halla Tómasdóttir Skoðun Áskorun til Þingvallanefndar Álfheiður Ingadóttir Skoðun Óveðrið tekur undir með atvinnulífinu Hugrún Elvarsdóttir,Katrín Helga Hallgrímsdóttir Skoðun Skoðun Skoðun Með svipuna á bakinu Rannveig Eyja Árnadóttir skrifar Skoðun Íslensk stjórnvöld eiga að fordæma stríðið í Íran, Líbanon og Gaza Einar Baldvin Árnason skrifar Skoðun Sterk viska í stafni íslenskrar kjarabaráttu Freyr Snorrason skrifar Skoðun Gervigreind, ábyrgð og framtíð samfélags okkar Halla Tómasdóttir skrifar Skoðun Mjallhvít og dvergarnir sjö Ingibjörg Gunnlaugsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Óveðrið tekur undir með atvinnulífinu Hugrún Elvarsdóttir,Katrín Helga Hallgrímsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Er búið að lofa áfengisiðnaðinum atkvæðagreiðslu til að freista þess að stöðva dómsmál? Siv Friðleifsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Viljum við virða mannréttindi fatlaðs fólks? Þuríður Harpa Sigurðardóttir skrifar Skoðun Maístjörnur verkalýðsins, riddarar hringborðsins eða konungsríki fárra – við viljum von, trú og kærleika Bergþóra Haralds Eiðsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Kvenheilsa, læknisfræðilegt kannabis og lýðheilsa — tækifæri fyrir Ísland Magnús Þórsson skrifar Skoðun Hættulegasta fitan er ekki sú sem sést utan á líkamanum Anna Lind Fells skrifar Skoðun Nýjar lausnir í húsnæðismálum eru nauðsyn, ekki val Ellen Calmon skrifar Skoðun Málefni eldra fólks Björn Snæbjörnsson skrifar Skoðun Menntun Helgu Völu er fjárfesting – ekki gjöf Einar G. Harðarson skrifar Skoðun Opið bréf til Barna og fjölskyldustofu Steindór Þórarinsson,Jón K. Jacobsen skrifar Skoðun Er okkur sama um unga fólkið okkar? Hvar á það að vera? Þorvaldur Daníelsson skrifar Skoðun Að setja puttana í eyrun og kalla það stefnu Óðinn Freyr Baldursson skrifar Skoðun Viðvera, frammistaða og vellíðan á vinnustöðum: Við búum á Íslandi – og þurfum að vinna með það Böðvar Bjarnason,Sylgja Dögg Sigurjónsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Áskorun til Þingvallanefndar Álfheiður Ingadóttir skrifar Skoðun Er hlustað á þig? Karólína Helga Símonardóttir skrifar Skoðun Rangt svar við raunverulegum vanda Sandra Hlín Guðmundsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Engar samningaviðræður lengur - einungis sótt um inngöngu. Þollý Rósmundsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Tala þvert á það sem ESB sjálft segir Hjörtur J. Guðmundsson skrifar Skoðun Efnahagslegur raunveruleiki: Ísland dregst enn frekar aftur úr smáríkjum innan Evrópusambandsins Kristján Reykjalín Vigfússon skrifar Skoðun Íran og Hormuz-sund Arnór Sigurjónsson skrifar Skoðun Samfélagið treystir á öfluga fráveitu Brynja Ragnarsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Heiðarleiki og raunhæfar lausnir Ragnar Þór Reynisson skrifar Skoðun Sundlaugar Reykjavíkur þurfa málefnalega pólitíska umræðu Brá Guðmundsdóttir,Björn Berg Pálsson,Drífa Magnúsdóttir,Ellen Elísabet Bergsdóttir,Hafliði Páll Guðjónsson,Sigríður Ásdís Þórhallsdóttir,Snorri Örn Arnaldsson,Vala Bjarney Gunnarsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Að vera rétt tengdur eða bara „íbúi“? Guðrún M. Njálsdóttir skrifar Skoðun Um siðferði og veiði Runólfur Ágústsson skrifar Sjá meira
It is no secret that language barriers are one of the biggest challenges for all Icelanders of foreign origin. Iceland has the lowest self-reported host language proficiency for migrants among all OECD countries — just 18%, compared to the 60% average. Practical access barriers are commonly discussed, including course availability, quality, and high costs. However what is often missing from the conversation is just how learning Icelandic intersects with gender and health. Hidden Barriers: Language learning is labour, even if not often recognized as such. It demands time, focus, and emotional energy — resources not equally available to everyone. Unsurprisingly, the same barriers immigrant women face in the labour market — ie. disproportionate childcare and family responsibilities, health issues, cultural expectations etc. — likewise limit their ability to participate in Icelandic learning. Moreover, knowledge gaps around how trauma, grief, anxiety, and other integration stressors show up in classrooms in ways that language teachers are often not equipped to handle via generalized language teaching methods. Language learning for migrant learners uniquely can trigger and intensify complex issues of identity and belonging. Emotional and cognitive challenges — such as irritability, forgetfulness, sleep disturbances, emotional detachment, and negative self-image — can hinder one's ability to learn, yet are often misunderstood by both learners and educators. Well-meaning advice often offers, “Just be confident!” or “Get out and try more!”, with even some healthcare professionals approaching the matter more within the scope of general self-esteem issues. Yet deeper, multicultural factors are at play, such as dual-identity formation, coping with microaggressions, internalized discrimination, and all the invisible work and effort it takes to navigate an unfamiliar society. Studies further indicate women experience more second language anxiety, echoing broader trends in social anxiety. While Icelandic is obviously difficult for men too, unique gendered circumstances including: the emotional labor of relationship management, preservers of family reputation, more likely to be socialized to draw personal value and self image based on their relationships and how others see them, extra subjection to social policing, increased expectations of coming off as caring and polite pressuring careful tone and word choices etc. These factors raise the stakes of language expression differently for women. As a result, learning Icelandic becomes incredibly personal and isolating, leaving many women silently wondering, "What is wrong with me that makes this so hard?" The Results: With one of the highest migrant overqualification rates in the OECD — about 1 in 3 migrants are in mismatched jobs compared to 1 in 10 natives — Foreign women are especially affected as more likely to be overqualified and hold higher education than their male peers. For refugees, these gaps are even wider. Then their children — even those born and raised in Iceland — also face challenges, as they are disproportionately represented in the NEET (Not in Education, Employment, or Training) category. Low parental income or unemployment — both correlating with immigrant families — play a major role in this. The weight and worry this can put on women, particularly as mothers hoping to offer their children better opportunities, is immeasurable. Hope for Change: W.O.M.E.N. offers this article as another perspective to language learning barriers. We see a critical need and opportunity to better support women of foreign origin and their families by exploring these topics further. Partnering with Kvíðameðferðarstöðin and multiple language schools this Spring and Summer, W.O.M.E.N. is conducting the Mállíðan (Mál / language + líðan / health) project funded by the Immigrant Development fund. Mállíðan offers wellbeing support alongside Icelandic courses for women of foreign origin; while together working to better understand these issues and identify best practices. If you are a woman of foreign origin this article has resonated with - you are not alone. We welcome you to visit our website for more information on courses from participating schools here: https://womeniniceland.is/en/mallidan/ The author is the Vice Chair of W.O.M.E.N. & Project Manager of Mállíðan
„Ég kýs að kjósa ekki“ Silja Sóley Birgisdóttir,Sigrún E. Unnsteinsdóttir ,Rósa Guðný Arnardóttir,Jökull Sólberg Auðunsson,Júnía Líf M. Sigurjónsdóttir,Jón Ferdínand Estherarson,Hannes Pétursson,Halldór Ólafsson,Geirdís Hanna Kristjánsdóttir,Birna Gunnlaugsdóttir Skoðun
Er búið að lofa áfengisiðnaðinum atkvæðagreiðslu til að freista þess að stöðva dómsmál? Siv Friðleifsdóttir Skoðun
Efnahagslegur raunveruleiki: Ísland dregst enn frekar aftur úr smáríkjum innan Evrópusambandsins Kristján Reykjalín Vigfússon Skoðun
Skoðun Íslensk stjórnvöld eiga að fordæma stríðið í Íran, Líbanon og Gaza Einar Baldvin Árnason skrifar
Skoðun Óveðrið tekur undir með atvinnulífinu Hugrún Elvarsdóttir,Katrín Helga Hallgrímsdóttir skrifar
Skoðun Er búið að lofa áfengisiðnaðinum atkvæðagreiðslu til að freista þess að stöðva dómsmál? Siv Friðleifsdóttir skrifar
Skoðun Maístjörnur verkalýðsins, riddarar hringborðsins eða konungsríki fárra – við viljum von, trú og kærleika Bergþóra Haralds Eiðsdóttir skrifar
Skoðun Kvenheilsa, læknisfræðilegt kannabis og lýðheilsa — tækifæri fyrir Ísland Magnús Þórsson skrifar
Skoðun Viðvera, frammistaða og vellíðan á vinnustöðum: Við búum á Íslandi – og þurfum að vinna með það Böðvar Bjarnason,Sylgja Dögg Sigurjónsdóttir skrifar
Skoðun Efnahagslegur raunveruleiki: Ísland dregst enn frekar aftur úr smáríkjum innan Evrópusambandsins Kristján Reykjalín Vigfússon skrifar
Skoðun Sundlaugar Reykjavíkur þurfa málefnalega pólitíska umræðu Brá Guðmundsdóttir,Björn Berg Pálsson,Drífa Magnúsdóttir,Ellen Elísabet Bergsdóttir,Hafliði Páll Guðjónsson,Sigríður Ásdís Þórhallsdóttir,Snorri Örn Arnaldsson,Vala Bjarney Gunnarsdóttir skrifar
„Ég kýs að kjósa ekki“ Silja Sóley Birgisdóttir,Sigrún E. Unnsteinsdóttir ,Rósa Guðný Arnardóttir,Jökull Sólberg Auðunsson,Júnía Líf M. Sigurjónsdóttir,Jón Ferdínand Estherarson,Hannes Pétursson,Halldór Ólafsson,Geirdís Hanna Kristjánsdóttir,Birna Gunnlaugsdóttir Skoðun
Er búið að lofa áfengisiðnaðinum atkvæðagreiðslu til að freista þess að stöðva dómsmál? Siv Friðleifsdóttir Skoðun
Efnahagslegur raunveruleiki: Ísland dregst enn frekar aftur úr smáríkjum innan Evrópusambandsins Kristján Reykjalín Vigfússon Skoðun